ONLINE DATING TIPS: STAYING ALIVE

One of the greatest things about online dating is: YOU HAVE FULL CONTROL! You make the rules. You make your choices. You make decisions. You remain anonymous as long as you like.

People you meet on the Internet are just like any other people you meet in your everyday life. Some of them you like a lot, some of them you don't. Most of them are honest, some aren't. Think about it and act accordingly!

For your own safety, please follow this simple rules:

• Decide what EXACTLY you expect from your ideal match. Set up your rules, than stick to them closely.
• Be highly selective. There's so many people online, don't waste your time on those who don't match your criteria.
• Be completely honest about who you are and what you want right from the beginning.
• Guard your anonymity. Never include any personal or identifying information in your profile or in your initial e-mails.
• Start slow. It takes some time to get to know a person well.
• Be cautious. The person at the other end may not be who or what he/she says.
• Ask questions. Ask for more photos.
• Chat via telephone. A phone call can reveal a lot about another person.
• Take all the time you need to become comfortable with someone before you arrange a meeting.
• Watch for inappropriate or irrational behavior, disrespectful comments, anger, aggression or attempts at pressuring or controlling you.
• Run away from liars.
• Trust your feelings. If you feel uncomfortable with someone, leave.